A man who persistently chases a girl that rejected him lacks fatherly love ~ Engr Ayo opens up 

Ayo Salako, a software engineer from Nigeria, has criticized men who persist in chasing a lady who has rejected them.

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He stated that these individuals most likely did not receive enough love from their fathers at home, which is why their actions were motivated.

The Influencer emphasized that if a lady he admires politely rejects his advances, a man does not need to hold onto hope.

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He asserts that in that situation, perseverance is simply a sign of low self-esteem rather than a sign that the person is a goal-getter.

He continued by saying that while tenacity can be helpful in some endeavors, it should not be used to approach women.

He wrote; Emeka: “I find you very attractive. I’d love for us to be together”

Precious: “I’m sorry. I’m not sure I’m emotionally ready for a relationship right now. Let’s just be friends”

Emeka: “Please na. Just give me a chance to prove myself”

Hian. Fathers, love your boys.

One of my favorite lines navigating this conversation: “A woman always knows”

As a man, one “No” from a woman is enough to walk away. Stop convincing her to see what she has chosen not to see except it’s not there. Pointless hanging around the venue after failing an interview. There are situations where you deploy persistence but not in the face of a blatant “No”.

Persistence in the face of a blatant “No” is the gameplay of esteem-deficient men. Whatever you beg to have, you’ll beg to keep. More times than not, she’s exercising options – there’s always a list in this order 👇

Dream man

Prospectives

“It is well”

If you’ve ever gotten any of these responses:

“Let’s see how it goes”

“Can you wait?”

“Emotionally, I’m not there yet”

“May the best man win”

You’re the fallback plan in case her options do not hit, the one she “settles for”, captain of “it is well” list. Don’t let a woman have to tell you twice. Walk away. You’re loved at home. If you’ve tasted genuine, unforced pampered love, you won’t settle for nonsense 

 

Ayo, in a post on social networking service, Twitter used a dialogue between some fictional characters to drive home his point